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    What Should I Do

    by SonataFanGirl » Tue Mar 02, 2010 8:18 am

    I would love to be on the curise, however my boyfriend has basically said that if I go me and him are as good as over, should I go and do something for me or just keep him happy??
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by jasonirazu » Tue Mar 02, 2010 8:39 am

    go on the cruise, plenty other guys out there
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by BlackToothGrin » Tue Mar 02, 2010 11:54 am

    maybe it just wasn't meant to be...he is crazy if he doesn't want to go.... i say if you want to go that badly then do it.
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by Psycho » Tue Mar 02, 2010 12:28 pm

    Just go :)
    Do not throw what makes you happy away because of some crazy guy. If he really liked you, he would incentivate you to go and enjoy yourself

    I've been in pretty much the same situation with my exchange. Now I'm in Finland, single and happy :D
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by Bell » Tue Mar 02, 2010 1:47 pm

    Do the cruise!
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by HitemHard » Tue Mar 02, 2010 4:05 pm

    Never stop what you want to do because of someone else. Have fun doing what you want to do! :P There are plenty of fish in the sea. :o
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by metalia » Tue Mar 02, 2010 4:08 pm

    My god, if he really told you that...., just leave him right now god dammit....

    Sometimes people need to have their independance.... sorry but what a selfish guy is that
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by Zeh » Tue Mar 02, 2010 6:04 pm

    Well, a guy who does it don't deserve being with you.
    Kick him.
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by TOM CRUISE » Tue Mar 02, 2010 11:33 pm

    What everyone else said. Lose the controlling loser b/f and do what you want! :mrgreen:
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by Metalwrath » Wed Mar 03, 2010 5:35 am

    Go on the boat.Anybody stupid enough to end somethign over a fucking metal cruise deserves to be dumped anyway.
    He fails at being metal :lol:
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by Barb » Wed Mar 03, 2010 6:36 am

    Go. Make yourself happy.

    Only when you are happy you have the ability of making anyone else happy.
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by asmegin » Wed Mar 03, 2010 5:50 pm

    Why did he say that? Does he not like boats? Can't he go too?
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by jd15k » Thu Mar 04, 2010 6:38 am

    if u don't go cuz of a guy u'll get mad at him and sure the relationship will be screwed int the end anyway so i tell ya do the cruise and enjoy it the most u can and when u get back if he doesn't change his mind so that means he just doesn't deserve ya and at least u'll be happy cuz u did the cruise ^^
    I already went through this kinda thing and i didn't go to a show cuz of a girlfriend and now that band doesn't exist anymore and i regret it a lot...
    so just go and enjoy it ^^
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by Zeh » Thu Mar 04, 2010 8:31 am

    Maybe he is jealous of not being able to go with you. But talking about it usually helps.

    Unless if he is a tr00 metalhead666 from hell who don't cry or complain, just get pissed-off :twisted:
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by Metallion » Thu Mar 04, 2010 1:19 pm

    Dump his ass. Don't worry. I'm sure there wont be a shortage of guys on the cruise lol.
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by Ecliptica » Thu Mar 04, 2010 5:27 pm

    My girlfriend said the same thing, but she's going to be in Italy during the cruise (and will be there until June) so we'll be taking a nice "six month break" during that time.

    Come on the cruise and see me. I'm adorable.
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by Chopper » Fri Mar 05, 2010 12:58 am

    go on the cruise or stay home and be barefoot and pregnant.
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by militant_x » Sat Mar 06, 2010 12:18 pm

    why is he not willing to go on the cruise?
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by PapaSmurf » Sun Mar 07, 2010 5:28 am

    didn't really read the comments, but... no one here on this forum will tell you not to go on the cruise :D

    ...if so, he's definately wrong here :shock:
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by Schluckspecht666 » Sun Mar 07, 2010 5:41 am

    SonataFanGirl wrote:I would love to be on the curise, however my boyfriend has basically said that if I go me and him are as good as over, should I go and do something for me or just keep him happy??


    Read your signature. You answer your own question.
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by Die for Dethklok » Sun Mar 07, 2010 11:16 pm

    why would someone be so opposed to going on a cruise?
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by Captain Metal » Sun Mar 07, 2010 11:30 pm

    It's a fear of mermaids, gotta be. It all makes sense now...
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by SonataFanGirl » Mon Mar 08, 2010 3:23 am

    Its a fear of the following for him; Planes and Boat and for some reason he has a fear of America, something we don't see eye to eye on...lol
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by Captain Metal » Mon Mar 08, 2010 3:02 pm

    Fear of America? What the hell is that!? We speak the same language (which is about half true around here), so it's not like he can't communicate with people. As for fear of flying AND boating, well that sounds like a more deep seeded problem.

    Hell, I have a fear of heights, but have no problems flying. I think he needs to work on those things or else he'll never set foot outside the UK, and that would just be a sad existence to never be able to see the world.

    It's not like we're getting on the Titanic, sailing into iceberg infested waters.

    What is he afraid of exactly? I want specifics. A number of people outside the US to seem to have this notion that all Americans are a bunch of brain dead, white trash ogres, and nothing could be further from the truth. We certainly have our share of idiots here, but that's pretty much the case just about anywhere on Earth. Honestly, I think this is the part I find most ridiculous.

    Tell him to man up and stop being such a tosser
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by sideways » Mon Mar 08, 2010 4:44 pm

    sounds like he's living under a bloody shell. you only live once afterall, what sense if their in being scared to do anything :|
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by Schluckspecht666 » Mon Mar 08, 2010 6:19 pm

    Captain Metal wrote:It's a fear of mermaids, gotta be. It all makes sense now...


    :lol: :lol: :lol:
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by GhostMemory » Tue Mar 09, 2010 1:07 am

    Barb wrote:Go. Make yourself happy.

    Only when you are happy you have the ability of making anyone else happy.


    This.

    Sounds like the guy has some serious insecurities if he's gonna be that drastic.
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by SonataFanGirl » Tue Mar 09, 2010 2:20 am

    I've finally made up my mind to go on the curise and see where I stand with him when I get back, all I need now is someone to share a cabin with :D
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    Good decision

    by reddevil » Tue Mar 09, 2010 3:42 am

    By the way, a friend of mine has the nickname sonataboy, that might would be an alternative a good for you ;)

    and he looks better than me :lol:
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by GhostMemory » Tue Mar 09, 2010 11:22 am

    SonataFanGirl wrote:I've finally made up my mind to go on the curise and see where I stand with him when I get back, all I need now is someone to share a cabin with :D


    Good for you :D
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by Blacktophat » Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:47 pm

    Nice work. Life is too short. Have as much fun as you can while your here :viking:
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by BlackToothGrin » Tue Mar 09, 2010 2:10 pm

    :headbanger:
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by Schluckspecht666 » Tue Mar 09, 2010 9:55 pm

    :shred:
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by laRFex » Wed Mar 10, 2010 6:23 am

    definitely the right choice, i promise you wont be sad on this trip.
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    Re: Good decision

    by Psycho » Wed Mar 10, 2010 10:57 am

    reddevil wrote:By the way, a friend of mine has the nickname sonataboy, that might would be an alternative a good for you ;)

    and he looks better than me :lol:


    Hahah! That'd be pretty cute!


    And good choice, girl ;)
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by gomorth » Thu Mar 18, 2010 1:51 pm

    He is a fool, Ill take my girlfriend with me, she is my concert partner and i dont think other way to enjoy the 70000

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    Re: What Should I Do

    by CharleneThrashes » Thu Mar 18, 2010 2:59 pm

    To me, the answer is as plain as day. Anytime a person "doesn't know" if they should stay with someone or not, they have already answered their own question.

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    Re: What Should I Do

    by Deathbringer » Mon May 30, 2011 10:15 pm

    what the fuck is this dumb shit
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by KevinP » Tue May 31, 2011 4:29 am

    Deathbringer wrote:what the fuck is this dumb shit


    it's called you resurrectting a dead issue from over 1 year ago ;)
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    Re: What Should I Do

    by vikingbitch » Tue May 31, 2011 4:33 am

    Deathbringer wrote:what the fuck is this dumb shit


    :lol: Yup.

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